Monday, May 27, 2013

Bicycle Dieting Parable, Part 4 - QUESTIONING .... by DianaDee Osborne

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Have you ever been SO frustrated after  2 “Good” weeks.... 
or 4.... when the scale still would not go downward.
 But if you had just a few “bad” days, it seems to soar?
If so, you'll enjoy where God's Bicycle parable 
is heading....     hang in  a few more dieting days!

Click HERE  to view PART 1     of the   BICYCLE DIETING PARABLE  
   Click HERE  to view PART 2     of the  PARABLE (where it's going)
     Click HERE  to view PART 3     (slacking off because you see no bad results)

May this   BICYCLE  PARABLE  as it develops
bring you MUCH JOY in dieting or fighting ANY temptation..
THE SETUP  from the May 22nd blog:
1.  Your mom loves you dearly and knows that having a bicycle would give you great joy.
      And seeing YOU have joy gives HER joy.
2.  So Mom makes an offer that you agree to.... You'll do 10 things for 6 months.

PART 4 --  QUESTIONING......

Suppose after a few weeks of trying to do the 
10 things Mom says to do to earn your bicycle, 
you start looking around at all your other friends. 
They might not have a nice bicycle like you're trying to earn,---
          but they have all sorts of other great things. 
            Video games, skateboards, cell phones, 
                 designer clothes, …. and your Mom didn't get you 
THOSE either. Those 'blessings' just 'came' to your friends...
THEY  didn't have to do any work like YOU do.
THEY  didn't have to wait 6 months of hard work first....

The comparison is really bugging you.  What do you do?
My suggestion may surprise you:
ASK MOM. 
      You already know Mom loves you.
       You know she likes to talk with you .... as long as
 you're being respectful.  If you start blaming her for not
 giving you what your friends have, that conversation
will  NOT lead to pleasant results for you.
        But a respect-filled, honest question?  Mom might
             say "you'll understand more later."
    OR she might answer.  What can it hurt to just ask?

As dieters... or fighting ANY thing, 
including illnesses, financial stuff, loss of friends, frustrating jobs.......
  It is a JOY to reach a point of honestly just asking our loving God for answers....
     respectfully, of course.   While asking for help.
It's a logical question:  Why do some dieters struggle while others easily shed pounds as soon as they start cutting back to the same number of calories? (Why do some people seem so blessed by God when others seem to struggle for each "bicycle" in their lives?)

      .... We have 2 choices:
1.  Trust that Mom's method of teaching me to work for the bicycle is for my good.
       Philippians 4:13... Practice in prayers that You'll help me IF I ask.
2.  Get angry that Mom seems unfairly hard. 

Between the two, which attitude honors our God Who knows far more than even the best of Moms?

God's supporting,  encouraging Words:  Hebrews 10
35-36   Therefore do not cast away your confidence, which has great reward.  For you have need of endurance, so that after you have done the will of God, you may receive the promise: 
38  Now the just shall live by faith; But if [anyone] draws back, My soul has no pleasure in him."

        God cares more about me than my   
         weight... or my "bicycles" in life.      

PRAYER
LORD GOD,  I've often looked at other people get their "bicycles" -- their blessings that I yearn to have -- and questioned why You won't give me the same.  Sometimes I get so irked at this body that will  NOT  lose weight easily when I'm dieting, and gains weight so easily if I get careless.  Please forgive me.  Please help me to look ahead... to see that there's something else far more important to help me grow in faith and trust of You.  But please... if it's Your Will... please also help this body start to become more and more healthy as I seek to follow Your will  in my eating and exercise and even amounts of sleep.

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